Generally speaking, when a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to help a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving he may sound to him.
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.
Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed. Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.
Just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving.
A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood.